The blessing that will come from your earthly father, you can never carry it from your earthly mother because they don’t carry the same Grace.
Genesis 49
For something to be transferred, there
have to be a reciever
The pain of every giver is finding a worthy reciever.
Your faithfulness in handling little things given to you determines how you’ll handle big things.
Remember the servants with the talents?
The first two men used their talents well.
The last man didn’t.
Every person carries a curse and a blessing.
If you are obedient to your Earthly father, it carries a promise ( long life )
If you are obedient to your parents and honour them, they cannot place a curse on you whether vocally or with body language.
Your father or mother cannot curse you for doing what is right.
If you bless your Mum, your mum will bless you.
Anytime your parents give you what was useful to them, they are transferring generational blessings to you.
NEVER LOOK FOR YOUR FATHER’S MONEY, LOOK FOR HIS GRACE.
Never fight for your parents material properties, seek their blessings instead.
If you are above eighteen, never ask your parents to give you money. It is irresponsible.
A generation that have only their mothers surviving is a cursed generation.
You can go to the mountain to pray but one hand by your father laid on your hand can answer the prayers you went to the mountains to pray for.
Abraham, Issac and Jacob passed on their children, formal blessings. Some even to their grandchildren
What you don’t go for, you can’t get it.
There are some blessings that cannot just walk into your life.
Any blessing that can change your Life demands a price to be paid.
Every encounter Joseph had, good or bad pushed him to his greatness.
Joseph could not be blessed by Jacob Because he was an Egyptian.
But he took his children, Ephraim and Mannaseh to Jacob to transfer the blessing meant for him ( Joseph ) to his
children.
To marry can be your priority, to get rich can be your priority, but God’s priority is to for you to get His blessings first.
Matthew 6:33
Jacob blessed Ephraim with the blessings of the elder son and Mannaseh, the younger son.
The father’s blessings must be sought as priority before your own blessings.
Your father’s blessings doesn’t have to come when he is old, or near death.
Your father’s blessings must be sought daily, weekly and monthly
When and how do you get your father’s blessings?
The father here could represent your biological father or spiritual father.
Some of the things you do, you think you can get away with it.
You cannot get away with it. You and your generation will suffer for it.
Some of you are carrying loads that you did not cause.
Every pronouncement that Jacob placed on his children came to pass.
In Deuteronomy 33, anytime that the tribes of Israel were counted, Rueben was always the last. Judah was first and Benjamin was second.
In vs 6 Moses noticed this and prayed to God to relieve the curse from Rueben’s head.
Did your father or mother ever curse you?
Today is your day of liberation.
How many of you recieved the blessings of your father and mother before they died?
Did you do anything to your parents that made them regret giving birth to you?
Today is your day of liberation.
If you are fighting with your spouse and your children side with your wife, watch it.
That is wrong and dangerous!
If God wants to bless you as a child, He can’t bless you through your mouth.
Your Father, husband, grandfather is the carrier of that hereditary blessings.
If pronounced on you positively and negatively, it stays, unless reversed by a higher authority
Never open your mouth to speak against your father and your mother.
Never side with your mum to fight your dad.
Never side your dad to fight your Mum.
Mothers don’t use your God given position to shift your children’s heart away from their father only to yourself.
Push them to love their Father, they will love you more.
Now that they are still young and inexperienced, you can easily fool them.
But when they are wise and they know this, they will call you a witch.
The man’s Grace is to go look for what the Children will eat.
If you have made the mistake of planting discord in your children’s heart against your spouse, repent in this meeting now.
WIVES don’t be a Sapphira, who partnered with her husband to do what was wrong.
Never become a blockage to those who nature has assigned as benefactors for your husband.
If you hinder your husband’s blessings, your blessings will not come to you.
If your parents are no more alive, make your pastors pray the prayer of your father for you.